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Originally Posted by Tonya
Would I really be consideed a "poser"?
Okay, so latley i've been kinda going through this thing now whee I'm into dressing goth/punk. I've pretty much always been into the goth/punk thing but latley I've actually started dressing it. Well, the other day I decided to wear a skirt with the rest of my black clothes and some girl asks if I'm goth. I say yeah I guess and a little punk too. Then she called me poser and said punks don't wear long skirts. And then yesterday, I decided to wear an orange/red sweat because it was chilly. She asks me if I'm goth and I say yes and she says "goth" doesn't work for e and I'm a poser because sometimes I don't wear all black. But like lots of people, my whole closet is not all black clothes. I mostly have other colers. So what? Am I some poser now because I don't wear black every single day?, if I could I would. Because I'm usually more cheerful and optiistic than the steriotyped "goth/punk" attitude? Because I don't walk around all the time with an attitude? My lord, what do they want from me.
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Poser? No.
Poser is a term that insecure people use to keep outsiders from their "comfort zone" of likeminded friends. They don't want you in their social group, so they call you a poser, trying to get you to stop wearing what they deem the symbol of their particular social group. You know why they don't want you in their group? Because you aren't an insecure wierdass like they are. Ten minutes with you and they'd realize that they suck. You're too cool for those twinks Tonya!
I wear tees and jeans, because i find them comfortable. I buy the $20 jeans from Wally World and Old Navy because they're cheap and durable
