I mean it in a positive way. I am in my forties (don't be fooled by my age on my profile I still have to fix it); I am single again. I own my house, and I am more of a homebody when I get off of work. My car is paid for. I do get out with friends, but it is mostly cookouts, or playing cards. I have a gig one night a week at a blues club. I record (when I have time). I will get out and hike and camp once in awhile. I go to historical towns - that is about it. I do not smoke, drink, or any other illicit activity.